tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post5291013582966608549..comments2023-09-08T05:50:24.114-07:00Comments on Ayyangar's Blog- "VYANGYAM": Marriage MarketShri Ram Ayyangarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-41095624319088863352013-10-17T18:49:39.362-07:002013-10-17T18:49:39.362-07:00In the not-too-distant future I see many youngster...In the not-too-distant future I see many youngsters not wanting to get married at all. Whatever they decide (marry, not marry, live with extended family or just the core family), many in the older generation simply want them to be safe and happy.Khoty Mathurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09706537182743683089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-90012198845713726572013-10-14T09:37:14.168-07:002013-10-14T09:37:14.168-07:00Change is a necessity & need of the hour . I h... Change is a necessity & need of the hour . I have a similar post depicting the purpose & challenges of marital institution in today's time http://www.sweetsharing.com/grannys-book-of-secrets-marriage-beyond/Garima Naghttp://www.sweetsharing.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-76070969999582983512013-10-14T00:47:38.057-07:002013-10-14T00:47:38.057-07:00You are absolutely right given the marriage scenar...You are absolutely right given the marriage scenario in today's world people are more fussy and articular than ever before! <br /><br />It may be a good change for many but it can also ruin certain family values and later create trouble in old ages!<br /><br /> mamta sharmahttp://www.gudbe.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-37297522344669883072013-10-11T06:20:10.535-07:002013-10-11T06:20:10.535-07:00I think we should not take marriage as something w...I think we should not take marriage as something we NEED to do. There is social pressure attached to this institution in our country. We should marry because we want to and to the person who we feel is compatible to us. Also, change is a part of growth, we adopt those which succeed.Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-88062743185749211382013-10-11T04:08:29.202-07:002013-10-11T04:08:29.202-07:00The society is going through a churn. However I be...The society is going through a churn. However I belong to the old school of thought. There is a right time and age for everything. As Purba said, a lot depends on the situation at hand. Urban folks, celebrities face different problems from their rural counterparts.Alka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-30520291827372241512013-10-10T00:06:42.972-07:002013-10-10T00:06:42.972-07:00True the change in a way is healthier and even un ...True the change in a way is healthier and even un healthier as well. The west is influening us too heavily and sometime we girls compromise the value of building a home with our own personal interests. That is hurting.<br /><br />ekta khetanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13253258697971928171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-3670154666474465532013-10-09T21:24:02.443-07:002013-10-09T21:24:02.443-07:00Those who stick to traditions will find it hard to...Those who stick to traditions will find it hard to wean themselves away from it. After all, what took generations of practice is hard to give up. But I am glad to say that I've noticed that it is the older generations that are more understanding of the situation, and those sandwiched in between have the hassle of which side to swing.<br /><br />Interesting post, Mr Ayyangar.Vidya Suryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12911836541019511108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-64711494043269510052013-10-09T16:24:40.678-07:002013-10-09T16:24:40.678-07:00This is how a society evolves, by discarding age o...This is how a society evolves, by discarding age old traditions and adopting new ones. But one can never say for certain that change is always for the better. It also depends on whose point of view we are looking at.Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-74455332457429293842013-10-09T07:53:37.121-07:002013-10-09T07:53:37.121-07:00I think much hype and hoopla is made about marriag...I think much hype and hoopla is made about marriage , hence there's lot of expectations, pressures attached to it. If people just go a bit easy on it , then I guess things will turn out balanced. There should simply be no obligations attached to the decision of an individual about getting married or not married, or when and how... Manihttps://www.friedeye.com/2013/10/third-gender-speaks.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-78885870868458606042013-10-09T03:30:29.975-07:002013-10-09T03:30:29.975-07:00Suresh Ayyangar from Chennai has sent me the follo...Suresh Ayyangar from Chennai has sent me the following link from You Tube as a comment to this article-<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59Hj7bp38f8 <br /> Fiddler on the roof - Matchmaker ( with subtitles )Shri Ram Ayyangarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-68874920766663025212013-10-09T00:33:01.144-07:002013-10-09T00:33:01.144-07:00The sooner the better ... this unhealthy obsession...The sooner the better ... this unhealthy obsession with getting young people married and parental and societal domination that it leads to is horrible. I call marriage the great Indian scam. Marriage is between a couple, not a society kind of thing. It should remain thatRituhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01311661584182041901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-61833791331843857552013-10-07T07:28:53.461-07:002013-10-07T07:28:53.461-07:00Very true. Only time will tell where we are landin...Very true. Only time will tell where we are landing.Rajeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10325697671806865458noreply@blogger.com