tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post1321504482594833014..comments2023-09-08T05:50:24.114-07:00Comments on Ayyangar's Blog- "VYANGYAM": It's all in a family relationshipShri Ram Ayyangarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-83138841111241344352014-03-04T22:48:33.010-08:002014-03-04T22:48:33.010-08:00I feel happiness to read the content that you are ...I feel happiness to read the content that you are posting.<br /><br /><a href="http://golovnev.net/" rel="nofollow">Click Golov Nev Link</a><br />nice manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13422121372504261130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-87246742262815287412013-12-24T01:13:49.286-08:002013-12-24T01:13:49.286-08:00I agree with you, Sir. We are changing and the bon...I agree with you, Sir. We are changing and the bond is not that strong now. It takes a lot of effort to keep relationships alive and many don't have time. Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-24055140559763446472013-12-03T20:00:45.735-08:002013-12-03T20:00:45.735-08:00During yesteryears, the number of siblings in a fa...During yesteryears, the number of siblings in a family were three or more and hence their children accounted to a decent bunch for a holiday gettogether . In the 80s onwards that reduced to two or less per family and now the number of grandchildren also decreased. Yes, many factors have contributed to this social change but one cannot avoid change I suppose Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-72366865502108668022013-11-22T18:29:44.459-08:002013-11-22T18:29:44.459-08:00I think we all need to accept and tame our minds t...I think we all need to accept and tame our minds that change is inevitable and the sooner we accept it we all will live with same love harmony and care for each other. Due to modern day technology people are loosing their skills to express and communicate effectively and forgetting true human natire of love care respect and missing the wonderful gift of God to experience all kinds of relations through this precious life. Today people connect but there is no emotion of love and care attached to it. Some consider it as duty or formality to meet and greet then the human touch is lost. We all are finally an ootcome of our choices that we make in life. So change need to begin inside onself to live a relationship.Venkatesh Ayyengarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02420083085883372608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-19324001637369671842013-11-21T00:32:29.441-08:002013-11-21T00:32:29.441-08:00Agree with the overall message Mr. Ayyangar! In th...Agree with the overall message Mr. Ayyangar! In the name of modernity, everything, almost everything, is justified. Self-respect (in the form of fighting for one's own space) is much more important than respect for others. Happiness for self is much more important than happiness for others. Happiness for self at the cost of others' happiness is not considered wrong. Though slightly disagree when you say people were happy in joint families. Many a times it was out of compulsion that they "lived happily".Ruminating Optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05835720956493853395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-13577195794228993842013-11-20T05:54:17.660-08:002013-11-20T05:54:17.660-08:00Comments on Facebook-
Radhika Kadaba ---Very well ...Comments on Facebook-<br />Radhika Kadaba ---Very well expressed and is true.<br />Sreedevi Mukundan-- Life was very easy going and simple in those days. !so joint family system worked. Distance, time ,education,vocation has all undergone a sea of change. We have also moved with time. Hence that feeling of unpreparedness for times gone by,in our sunset years ,wen we have a lot of time for retrospective!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-54721365480339173222013-11-20T05:19:46.667-08:002013-11-20T05:19:46.667-08:00Both joint family and nuclear family have their ad...Both joint family and nuclear family have their advantages/limitations. I don't subscribe to your view that people were so happy in joint families earlier. If that was the case, nuclear families would never have happened. <br /><br />The problem is with trust. You cannot trust anyone (including your closest family member) and hence that is one main reason why relationships are breaking down. Even friendships, for that matter. <br /><br />We are facing a problem of excess wealth/resources these days that causes many of our present problems (I think).<br /><br />Destination InfinityDestination Infinityhttp://www.destinationinfinity.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-88351862745311159432013-11-20T05:12:30.293-08:002013-11-20T05:12:30.293-08:00Thank you Blogadda for selecting this blog post.Thank you Blogadda for selecting this blog post.Shri Ram Ayyangarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-77716156025515366292013-11-19T21:08:09.570-08:002013-11-19T21:08:09.570-08:00This post has been selected for the Tangy Tuesday ...This post has been selected for the <a href="http://blog.blogadda.com/2013/11/19/tangy-tuesday-posts-from-indian-blogs" rel="nofollow">Tangy Tuesday Picks</a> this week. Thank You for an amazing post! Cheers! Keep Blogging :)Team BlogAddahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10414756277892063084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-66867495817029920242013-11-15T19:24:35.176-08:002013-11-15T19:24:35.176-08:00Comments through email-
-I read your Blog Post on ...Comments through email-<br />-I read your Blog Post on waning relationships and I agree with your views and sentiments.<br />But, is there an alternative or prospects for a U-Turn in the matter ?<br />Chandrasekharan TAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-22947464128702515312013-11-14T22:05:34.832-08:002013-11-14T22:05:34.832-08:00Received through email-
-Very well written to the...Received through email-<br /><br />-Very well written to the point! Many times I also ponder what's happened?<br />Anyway we have to move in life as you have written. You must be having a <br />Better understanding as you also counsel people. Keep writing.<br />Jyoti ChakravarthyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-53223554685270446422013-11-14T22:03:19.502-08:002013-11-14T22:03:19.502-08:00Comments received through email-
Very important ...Comments received through email-<br /><br /> Very important .Hope all those who have gone through your Blog will sit back and rethink.<br />-Veerkumar.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-46080376774383522342013-11-14T22:00:20.160-08:002013-11-14T22:00:20.160-08:00COMMENTS ON FACE BOOK-
By Neelam Saxena Chandra
Ve...COMMENTS ON FACE BOOK-<br />By Neelam Saxena Chandra<br />Very well written.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-12929898882575424742013-11-14T21:58:40.009-08:002013-11-14T21:58:40.009-08:00COMMENTS ON FACE BOOK-
By H Devaraja Rao
Your pos...COMMENTS ON FACE BOOK-<br /><br />By H Devaraja Rao<br />Your post brought back the memories of my childhood days. Gone are those happy days!<br />Concept of family has changed largely. Families are fast becoming nuclear, so much so that the "joint family" will soon be relegated to a footnote.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-8670660831268091272013-11-14T21:56:40.238-08:002013-11-14T21:56:40.238-08:00COMMENTS ON MY FACE BOOK-
Nice I just read you bl...COMMENTS ON MY FACE BOOK-<br /><br />Nice I just read you blog on disintegration of the joint family and values. I think it is all a part of evolution and progress we have to accept and proceed. I can understand your feelings but things have changed.<br />With education and independence, it is no longer possible for people to be obedient and listen to one family member. That order has gone, much like kings and queens have gone and given way to governments. Today, like we can;t have a king ruling us, we cant really have 4 generations staying together. Everything changes with time. Today, couples are living together without getting married and married couples are opting not to have children...so much is changing....the Ganges always flows from the source to the sea....a reverse flow is not possible....as you can understand...<br />- Dr.Pudugram VaidyanathanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-89511127281368939462013-11-14T07:07:43.896-08:002013-11-14T07:07:43.896-08:00This situation is really painful. I also feel this...This situation is really painful. I also feel this, bonding of childhood days becomes weak with growing age...why? I think ego is becoming stronger and stronger with time. Also life (or mind) has become too busy to talk with family members. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993745946442117074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-53142488256690037512013-11-14T06:30:07.241-08:002013-11-14T06:30:07.241-08:00Nice read ! Changed priorities, new income sourc...Nice read ! Changed priorities, new income sources and changed needs are defining things. Now economy is the driving force :-)Paresh Kalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00943279813810650095noreply@blogger.com