tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post6105833772528550735..comments2023-09-08T05:50:24.114-07:00Comments on Ayyangar's Blog- "VYANGYAM": Living in , Love & Arranged MarriageShri Ram Ayyangarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-84577186644018723492014-06-20T07:30:32.282-07:002014-06-20T07:30:32.282-07:00As you say, whatever may be the type of being toge...As you say, whatever may be the type of being together, the will to make it work and sincerity of approach are only things that matter.vyasamoorthyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00811369134092862282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-18101295160471192352011-06-25T00:11:11.048-07:002011-06-25T00:11:11.048-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Arya Samaj Mandirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15502351694296848461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-70882838422883970152010-04-03T02:37:36.381-07:002010-04-03T02:37:36.381-07:00Thank you all for your valuable comments.Thank you all for your valuable comments.Shri Ram Ayyangarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14257285894514756544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-83600147979672789102010-04-01T08:55:13.984-07:002010-04-01T08:55:13.984-07:00But I think it was unnecessary, irrational and bit...But I think it was unnecessary, irrational and bit idiotic of the SC judge to bring the example of Krishan and Radha :P What if now people justify 2 and more wives quoting our God's example :DLakshmi Rajanhttp://www.gingerchai.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-58109441712442147402010-03-29T21:33:38.928-07:002010-03-29T21:33:38.928-07:00WITH UNDESIRED INFLOW OF WESTERN CULTURE THIS ALL ...WITH UNDESIRED INFLOW OF WESTERN CULTURE THIS ALL IS INEVITABLE... NOBODY CAN HELP..I FEEL THE SCENARIO WILL WORSEN IN TIME TO COME....DRANOOP VERMAnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-45241021743181772192010-03-29T11:48:05.443-07:002010-03-29T11:48:05.443-07:00I think that people have lost track of life's ...I think that people have lost track of life's basics in their race to prove the world that they are an evolved society. Lust fades, love does not. This debate , I beg to differ is not about arranged or love marriages. where there is a marriage, there is no debate. This concept of living without incurring responsibilities and shirking one's dharma is a mindless and futile existence. One's goal in life needs to be to transcend to higher levels of mental planes instead of wandering aimlessly. whats the purpose of such an existence? where does that take one?<br />making a marriage work needs the right outlook rather than the "perfect" people. You love your mother, your brother and sister not because your minds are concurrent, but because you see something in them that transcends what seem like faults to you.<br />If one understands their duty and how to perform it, they will begin to be happy..life will be successful. Success cannot be meausred with one's bank balance. It is your mental understanding.<br />to make a marriage successful, you need to look at the good in someone, learn to compromise for no one is perfect. One can learn something from everyone. It is this ability when developed well, will lead to a growth in love..a mutual understanding and a beautiful relationship.<br />You can read my blog too for further comments, but guys, please stop forgetting your roots, and how you have evolved into the person you are today.Lakshmi Priyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09371376964796870282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-66177040569467360552010-03-29T09:23:02.299-07:002010-03-29T09:23:02.299-07:00I am not sure that there is a thing called success...I am not sure that there is a thing called successful marriage. Successful marriage involves long monogamous relationships that is against human nature. So we may end up with a successful marriage but an unsuccessful life.Harihttp://www.indiafirsthand.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-66468253940366977882010-03-29T04:16:01.061-07:002010-03-29T04:16:01.061-07:00live in relations are becoming an integral part of...live in relations are becoming an integral part of todays culture.<br />extra marital affairs have been there since ages.<br />many a times a very much in love couple also find themselves in a situation of extra marital affair. any relation outside marriage is based on physical attraction.<br />what is successful marriage is a debatable issue. there are couples who inspite of regular arguments, tiffs are together for years together.<br />true it all depends on the commitment the couple feel for each other.<br />according to me for a marriage to survive against all odds what is required is understanding, adjustments, compromise and patienceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-71565009947285159002010-03-28T08:11:14.781-07:002010-03-28T08:11:14.781-07:00Spot on! You have concluded it all in the right di...Spot on! You have concluded it all in the right direction. May be I am not that experienced yet to comment on the topic, but from my couple of years of married life, I can say with confidence that - All it needs is mutual respect, trust and responsibility for a successful life between two souls.Mohanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11670921733611787447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-59913901095031447042010-03-27T21:17:53.907-07:002010-03-27T21:17:53.907-07:00I thank you all for valuable inputs.I thank you all for valuable inputs.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05628040636853224797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-17567768783035778532010-03-27T20:45:23.958-07:002010-03-27T20:45:23.958-07:00As You very rightly said, it is the perfect unders...As You very rightly said, it is the perfect understanding between the spouses that determine whether the bond will last or not. You have analysed it very well.Sarashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09710421804935682833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-58770783474477297962010-03-27T06:08:52.146-07:002010-03-27T06:08:52.146-07:00Very true. Its quite a popular topic for discussio...Very true. Its quite a popular topic for discussion<br /><br />http://milanavi.blogspot.com/Milan Mehtahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698054831542766988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-15911583076181609152010-03-27T04:28:15.980-07:002010-03-27T04:28:15.980-07:00Love is what is needed.. if there is love between ...Love is what is needed.. if there is love between the couple then the bond of marriage becomes irreverent.. If there is no love no court can keep them together. Still it gives me sort of insecure feeling to know that my kid may have a live in relationship instead of marriage.Chapters From My Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905577212056834284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-32512124607673453382010-03-26T22:55:05.896-07:002010-03-26T22:55:05.896-07:00Your writing is so superlative that it stimulate o...Your writing is so superlative that it stimulate our senses. A K Verma www.askvastu.comEr. A K Vermanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-33536704254858766742010-03-26T01:18:00.397-07:002010-03-26T01:18:00.397-07:00Quote:
"... what separates happy couples fro...Quote: <br />"... what separates happy couples from unhappy couples is not whether they have problems, but how they approach them." ~ Linda and Robert Miles <br />UnquoteAnita Graciasnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-26353204831424267012010-03-26T01:16:45.933-07:002010-03-26T01:16:45.933-07:00Quote:
"Research has shown that the happiest,...Quote:<br />"Research has shown that the happiest, most deeply contented couples have four things in common, though they may demonstrate them in different ways: 1. They share friendship and love in many ways. 2. They treat each other with kindness and respect. 3. Both partners do their own part. 4. They're committed to staying together, even when it's no bed of roses." ~ Howard J. Markman<br />UnquoteAnita Graciasnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-778100724712990791.post-33286047022123332762010-03-26T00:42:18.857-07:002010-03-26T00:42:18.857-07:00I feel all the three- love, arranged, live-in - ca...I feel all the three- love, arranged, live-in - calls for the same sort of commitment. All three are the same once the novelty and excitement has run out. <br /><br />Whether you want to stay together and try make the relationship work, that is the question! All relationships have to go thru the tug-of-war of egos...how it ends depends on the two involved.<br /><br />I think it helps to ignore the trivia and concentrate on the positive attributes of the other. There is no perfect person and no perfect relationship. Everyone of us has faults and how we cope with ours and our partner's shortcomings, is what makes a relationship click.Nalini Hebbarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15829943036546766563noreply@blogger.com